Nancy Koenig
Writer • Energy Healer • Founder of Reflowerment®
Greetings! I’m Nancy.
If you enjoy freedom, flow, adventure, and meaningful transformation as much as I do, you’re in the right place.
For over eight years, I’ve been living nomadically—following intuition, healing deeply, helping others do the same, and collecting enough unbelievable stories to fill several books.
And possibly a screenplay or two.
My work blends energy healing, coaching, writing, and transformational tools to help people heal from trauma, reconnect with themselves, and create lives that feel more aligned, empowered, and free.
Because healing changes more than emotions.
It changes relationships.
Patterns.
Possibilities.
Even what we believe is possible for ourselves.
And while many of my experiences have felt almost impossibly magical, others have been deeply painful.
I know what it feels like to lose yourself.
And I know what it takes to reclaim yourself, too.
That’s the heart behind everything I create.
Start where you feel called:
Explore B.E.S.T. Energy Healing
Learn about Reflowerment®
Brouse the Bookshelf
Explore coaching
Read the blog
Experience B.E.S.T. For Yourself
Each month, one subscriber is selected to receive a complimentary B.E.S.T. energy healing session.
A simple way to experience this work—and discover what becomes possible when the body returns to balance.
Take Your BLOOM Back
Reflowerment® is a movement devoted to changing how women understand and carry their first experience with sexual intimacy.
For generations, the language surrounding women’s first time has implied that something was lost.
Reflowerment® is about changing that.
Reclaim your power
Rewrite the language
Take your bloom back
Choose Your Next Wave
Explore One Of My Offerings Below
Activate
Your inner healer as you bring your body back in balance
Luxuriate
With a healing retreat in the comfort of your own space
Elevate
Your life with profound self-love and aligned relationships
Different Waves. Same ocean.
Choose what resonates most deeply right now.
Breath of Fire: Ignited
The Real Story
I originally believed I was participating in Breath of Fire as a narcissistic abuse and trauma expert.
But the experience — and the direction of the series itself — became something far more complicated.
That complexity ultimately inspired me to tell my own story.
Not through soundbites or edited narratives, but through the raw and deeply personal writing that became The Relationship Ride.
Part memoir, part awakening, and part guide for those navigating abuse, trauma, and profound transformation, the book explores what happens when healing becomes the very thing that changes the course of your life.
And unlike many narratives surrounding trauma, this one is not about staying trapped in victimhood.
It’s about reclaiming power.
Reclaim Your Power:
10 Ways To Take Back Control From Domineering People & Toxic Relationships
The Books
Has a relationship ever taken you on a ride so wild, your entire life wiped out?
Are you still trying to catch your breath after being stuck under a treacherous wave of emotional or narcissistic abuse, or another type of all-consuming, toxic relationship?
The Relationship Ride (launching soon) is my deeply personal story, told through my blogs. But it’s not just MY story … it’s a guide to help you reclaim your power and create the life you desire.
“The Relationship Ride is a deeply resonant exploration of the intricacies of personal growth. With candid reflections, Nancy’s book is an authentic guide for anyone seeking to heal through the transformative power of self-awareness and the courage to face one's truths. Dive into The Relationship Ride and prepare for an enlightening and powerful journey into your own emotional landscape.” —Michael Bernard Beckwith
What if who you are today could see the one that got away?
Vienna is finally ready to release Zak, the man of her dreams who she hasn’t seen in over a decade, and date Grant, the man who dreams of her.
But just as she starts to move on, the ghost of her love life past invites her to rewrite their ending.
Conscious relationship wisdom and healing techniques subtly supplement “Love Without Traffic,” a story of love, loss and the sometimes illusory spaces between. While embarking upon Vienna’s inspiring adventure, you may just discover your very own ability to manifest miracles.
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Client Love From My Life Coaching & Energy Healing Clients
“Relaxing & Empowering”
I cannot express how transformative my journey has been with Nancy Koening and the B.E.S.T. treatments. From our first session, I felt a genuine connection and support that encouraged me to explore the deeper aspects of my life. Nancy has an amazing ability to listen and understand my challenges without judgment, helping me uncover limiting beliefs and patterns that were holding me back.
Through thoughtful questioning and insightful guidance, I gained clarity on my goals and learned practical strategies to achieve them. The B.E.S.T. treatments added a whole new dimension to my healing process. I found the sessions to be both relaxing and empowering, helping me release emotional blockages and restore balance in my energetic system. It was a unique experience that complemented my life coaching sessions beautifully, enhancing my personal growth and well-being.
I am now more confident, centered, and equipped to navigate life’s challenges. I highly recommend Nancy as a life coach and B.E.S.T. treatments to anyone seeking profound change and personal empowerment.
—Sandy
“Literally Changed My Life”
I don’t know where to start in explaining how amazing Nancy is.
At one of the lowest points in my life she empowered me, taught me how to believe in myself, helped me realize I was capable and able to set boundaries, brought back my self confidence and literally changed my life.
Since I started working with Nancy I have healthy and joyful relationships with my family-which we’re broken for a bit, I left a job that wasn’t serving me and have one that I’m proud of, I’m finding my confidence to get out and date but most importantly I’ve learned how to love and believe in myself.
I’ve learned techniques that I would’ve likely never embraced on my own which truly opened my mind to new ideas. And they work!! My life has done a 180 since I first met Nancy and I will forever be grateful to know her.
—Susan
I don’t just work with humans…
My absolute favorite part of my traveling adventures is staying with and taking exceptional care of my pet sitting friends, in the comfort and familiarity of their own homes!
I'm like the fun aunt who shows up to ensure they have as an enjoyable a time as their traveling humans.
Along with pet sitting, I provide energy healing for physical and emotional well-being, which greatly reduces separation anxiety and stress for your animal besties, as well as healing other short term and chronic issues.
Unlike a trip to the vet, animals love energy work!
I can sometimes even get to — and help release — the roots of their physical and emotional challenges that pet owners are unaware of. Many pets have been abused before finding their way into our loving hearts and homes, and abuse recovery works just as well with animals!
Pet Sitting Client Love
“Over & Above”
WONDERFUL! I just don't know where to begin with how amazing Nancy was with my girls. She went OVER AND ABOVE in caring for them.
They can be prima donnas, and a bit tricky at times, but Nancy navigated them beautifully. They all adored her, especially my littlest, Minnie, who pined for her for a long time after the sit ended.
Nancy is a genuinely caring soul, who took the BEST care of my girls. It was also wonderful to return home to healthy plants and everything neat and tidy. I can't say enough about the level of care that Nancy gave my girls and house. So thrilled to have connected with her.
—Lisa
“Healed Separation Anxiety”
Based on a friend’s glowing recommendation, I expected Nancy to be a fantastic pet sitter. But I had no idea how powerful her energy work would be! She actually healed my babies’ separation anxiety, which had been an issue for all of us every time I traveled or even left home for the day.
When I saw photos of them having fun in my absence and returned to relaxed and well-behaved pets, I joked, “Who are these imposters?”
—Christin
